offense
I speak in generalities. I often don't point out a specific incident but rather use my collective memory of multiple incidents to paint a story and get my point across. This is rather difficult for a lot of people to deal with. People seem to need specific examples of things. You can't say to someone - "I've noticed that you've seemed down lately, are you feeling okay?" Instead it is required to state, "I first noticed last week that something might be a little off, and since then I've seen you skip lunch twice, cry in the bathroom once and get into a fight with another co-worker. Are you feeling okay and can I help?" If you use the former you're assaulted for assuming things or people start wanting to know specifically what you saw... I don't know why... so they can better control/hide their behavior? Anyway. A lot of people seem to have problems with generalized statements and require proof of fucking everything. I don...